"Do You Know These 10 Critical Factors of Living With Borderline Personality Disorder?"

Dear Friend,

If you are living with borderline personality disorder, or are supporting a loved one who is, then you must read this letter.

If you're not sure that your doctor, psychiatrist, or therapist has told you the most critical factors about borderline personality disorder, then I know what you are up against.

I have had so many other people with borderline personality disorder and their supporters tell me that they have the same problem.

They're just not sure if they know everything about the disorder that they should know!

They just don't know if they were told about the critical factors of borderline personality disorder!

In my own case, years ago, I faced the same problem. I knew my mom had bipolar disorder and the symptoms of borderline personality disorder. But I just wasn't sure that we knew everything we were supposed to know.

I asked myself, "What isn't the doctor telling me?

What if he forgot something I need to know?

What if it's a critical factor of the disorder?"

Of course, at that time, I didn't know what the critical factors were, but I was really afraid that I didn't know everything we needed to know about my mom's disorder.

And I just wanted her to get better.

You may have run across the same thing. Maybe your doctor gave you a brochure or pamphlet on your (or your loved one's) borderline personality disorder, and maybe talked to you for a few minutes about it, but probably not much more than that.

There really isn't much a doctor or psychiatrist can do in a short period of time.

In my mom's case, she wanted to know everything about her disorder, but she didn't even know what she didn't know. Make sense? Quite simply, she didn't even know what to ask. There were so many things she had to learn the VERY hard way.

One of the Biggest Questions

After all this time of being involved with borderline personality disorder (whether I am volunteering, reading comments on my blog, talking to people, reading emails or letters I get, or reading over written material), one of the biggest questions I hear asked is, "Do I really know the most important things I need to know about borderline personality disorder?"

Most people who have borderline personality disorder or their supporters just don't know the answer to that question for sure.

Neither do therapists, other psychiatrists, doctors, and many other experts. I have been to many support groups and heard experts say, "The amount of information about borderline personality disorder changes every day. I can't tell you the answer to that question."

Well, that's true.

What they're afraid to tell you is that much of the information out there is outdated. Much of the information is hard to come by. And they have no way of knowing how much information you do know, and if that information is accurate.

They can't even tell you if the information you have is the BEST information.

You May Have Been Told "You Should Already Know"

If you have been around the "borderline block," so to speak, and have asked people what they know about borderline personality disorder, you have probably either been told a) your doctor should have told you, or b) you should already know what you need to know.

I have been to support groups where someone asked the expert or doctor about how they can tell if they know enough about borderline personality disorder and the conversation goes something like this: "Well, umm… it's really hard. Everyone with borderline personality disorder is different. Your doctor should have gone over this information with you."

If really pressed for an answer…

The doctor usually says, "Well, you need to learn this information for yourself," and then skips over the question quickly because they honestly have no idea whether you know what you really need to know!

Still, you shouldn't have to wonder if you know this information or not.

And your doctor or psychiatrist at least should have told you the critical factors, but may not have!

How I Figured Out The Critical Factors

First, I started with my mom.

Did she know what she needed to know?

Had she asked her doctor everything she wanted to know about her disorder?

Of course not! She felt scared. She didn't know what to ask him.

When she got home, we read the brochure. It really didn't say much - just the basics, you know?

We knew there was more to the disorder than we knew.

I found out everything I could from my mom's doctor about her disorder (which, of course, wasn't enough).

So I went to the library and started reading everything I could about borderline personality disorder.

I was surprised to find out how little information the library had on borderline personality disorder. There were very few books, and the articles I found were all written in "doctor-speak," which was difficult for me to understand.

Then I had an idea.

I started talking to people. Lots and lots of people. I got emails from people who I knew had borderline personality disorder. I asked everyone to tell me everything they knew about the disorder, including things they wished their doctors would have told them, and things they wished they would have asked, but found out the hard way.

Then I researched and researched some more. I also thought of every question we never asked the doctor when my mom first went to see him, and everything he should have told us about borderline personality disorder but didn't.

I wrote everything down. And I mean EVERYTHING.

Most of what I learned was what people had experienced and learned themselves.

And out of all this information, I realized that there are 10 critical factors that everyone with borderline personality disorder and their supporters need to know to live with the disorder!

The good news is that I have put every bit of information in this e-guide that you need to know about these 10 critical factors of living with borderline personality disorder.

You'll Never Find All This Information In One Place Anywhere

The information in 10 Critical Factors Of Living With Borderline Personality Disorder comes from real people just like you and me, and a great deal of research on my part.

These come from people on the front line of the battle against borderline personality disorder.

You might have been able to find out a little of this information on your or your loved one's borderline personality disorder. Like I said, maybe your doctor gave you a brochure or something like that.

But are you really sure that you know everything you should know to live with the disorder? Do you know the 10 critical factors of living with borderline personality disorder?

You will never find this much information about your borderline personality disorder all in one place.

You're going to be amazed at how much information is in this easy-to-read guide. Not in the "doctor-speak" that I found during my research, but in the simple language we can all understand.

In this guide, you'll learn the answer to one of the most difficult aspects of living with borderline personality disorder, and that is, "What is the most important information I need to know to live with borderline personality disorder?"

One of the questions people ask me is, "What is there that I don't know about borderline personality disorder that I need to know?"

To find out how to deal with this question, I put all the most important information you need to know about your or your loved one's borderline personality disorder in one place, and answered the questions I thought you would want answered and the questions you wish you had asked your doctor.

I didn't just use my own experience with my mom - I used the information I got from other people, so you could benefit from their experiences as well.

I also used all the many hours and hours of research and all the information I learned so that I could put it into this guide for you. I thought you needed this information on your or your loved one's borderline personality disorder.

Some of the things you'll learn in this guide are:

What borderline personality disorder is and isn't
How many people are affected by borderline personality disorder
Who is affected most by the disorder
Whether borderline personality disorder gets better over time or not
Can borderline personality disorder get better without treatment?
Can you die from borderline personality disorder?
Whether there is hope for recovery from borderline personality disorder
Your chances of recovery from borderline personality disorder
What "functionality" means (and are you "low functioning" or "high functioning?")
How others feel if you are a self-mutilator or attempt suicide (hint: it is an 11-letter word)
Why you self-mutilate (and where this originates from)
Why some people with borderline personality disorder spend a lot of time in the hospital (hint: it has to do with functionality)
How substance abuse can interfere with your borderline personality disorder
How eating disorders can result from borderline personality disorder
What finances have to do with borderline personality disorder
Why some people with borderline personality disorder can act perfectly normal sometimes and "explode" at other times
What the very first thing you have to do in order to recover from borderline personality disorder is
What denial is (and how it affects your recovery)
How "feeling fine" can interfere with your recovery
What if you have a physical illness?
What "innocent until proven guilty" has to do with borderline personality disorder
Why the willingness to change is so critical to living with borderline personality disorder
What happens when your thinking is distorted (and how dangerous it can be to you and your loved one)
What "perception of reality" means and how it affects living with borderline personality disorder
What happens if you don't want to change
Why you should change something that has worked for you for so long
How willingness to change is the cornerstone for all other parts of treatment for borderline personality disorder
What treatment for borderline personality disorder consists of
What is a good treatment plan?
What the "Triangle of Professionals" is, and who is in it
What the responsibilities are of each of the Triangle of Professionals
Why it is so important for you to be a part of your own treatment (and what happens if you aren't)
Why you need to communicate with your treatment team
What "Medical Release Forms" are, and why they are so important
Physical side effects vs. Emotional Side Effects
Why it is necessary to keep all your appointments
Different types of therapy for borderline personality disorder
The special type of therapy designed specifically for people with borderline personality disorder
Why some therapists won't treat patients with borderline personality disorder
Why it is crucial for you to cooperate with your therapist (and what happens if you don't)
What "mindfulness" is (and why you need to practice it)
How important "being in the present moment" is to your living with borderline personality disorder
How your judgmental thoughts affect your emotions (and how dangerous this is for you)
How this one saying can help you get your emotions "unstuck"
Why you act on your feelings without thought to the consequences
The two types of life stressors
How stress can cause you to exhibit acting out behavior
18 symptoms of stress that can affect your borderline personality disorder
8 ways to reduce stress in your life
3 relaxation techniques that you can practice that will help your borderline personality
disorder
How to develop a healthy self-image, and why this is a critical factor to living with borderline personality disorder
What "identity disturbance" means and how it affects you
What "fear of abandonment" is and where it comes from
How the fear of abandonment can drive others away from you
What self-harming behaviors are and why you might exhibit them
Where your anger stems from and how it can turn into a rage that hurts yourself and others
Why you are so afraid of rejection, and why it causes you to do the things you do
Are you a perfectionist? This is why.
What "push/pull" means and how it can destroy your relationship with someone
What is "splitting," and why do you do it?
Thrill-seeking, risk-taking, and impulsive behaviors, and why you do them.
12 types of impulsive behaviors and how they are dangerous and harmful to you and to others (and why)
Joseph's story, and what it has to do with you and your borderline personality disorder
"Acting in" vs. "Acting out" behavior - which do you do (or do you do both?)
8 examples of consequences to this type of behavior (I guarantee that you have experienced most of these)
What defense mechanisms are and how they are interfering with your recovery from borderline personality disorder
…and more!

You'll find so much information that you never knew before!

The 10 critical factors of living with borderline personality disorder in this guide will turn your life around!

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Who Is This For?

This is for both the person with borderline personality disorder AND their supporter. Both groups of people need this information.

If you are a supporter of a loved one with the disorder, you may think, "This is for my loved one -- I don't need to know this information." That's so far from the truth. In order to be a great supporter, you need to know about borderline personality disorder and the 10 critical factors of living with it.

Now, if you have borderline personality disorder, you might think, "I already know everything I need to know about my disorder." I guarantee you don't. I haven't met one person who has borderline personality disorder that knows all that is in this guide and can't learn something really critical.

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