"Who Else Wants to Know How to Deal with Their Loved One with Borderline Personality Disorder's Acting Out Behavior and Manipulation?"
Dear Friend,
If you are supporting a loved one with borderline personality disorder and you have problems dealing with their acting out behavior and manipulation, then this letter is going to be a Godsend to you.
If your loved one goes into periods of instability and exhibits out of control behavior, when they do things like yell at you, criticize you, belittle you, humiliate you, call you names, and manipulate you, then I know what you are up against.
I have had so many other supporters of loved ones with borderline personality disorder tell me that they have the same problems.
In my own case, years ago, I faced the same problem. My mom was totally unstable and thought she was "fine." She thought that we were the ones with the problem (my dad, her friends and co-workers, and me).
She would yell and yell at me, calling me names, and telling me, "I hate you! You are the worst son in the whole world!"
It really hurt me a lot, as I'm sure your loved one hurts you a lot, too. At the time, I just didn't know how to deal with my mom's behavior.
Finally, I learned how to deal with her acting out behavior and manipulation.
I developed techniques and strategies that I used with my mom and today, she is doing just great!
One of the Biggest Questions
After all this time of running www.BorderlineCentral.com, one of the biggest questions I hear asked is, "How do I deal with my loved one's acting out behavior and manipulation?"
Most supporters just don't know what to do. Neither do therapists, psychiatrists, doctors, and many other experts. I have been to many support groups and heard experts say, "There's really nothing you can do except try to do the best you can, unless they are suicidal or homicidal." This is TOTALLY NOT TRUE.
There are things that can be done.
I've Been Told It's Impossible
If you have been around the "borderline block," so to speak, and have asked people how to deal with your loved one's acting out behavior, especially when your loved one thinks they are fine, you have probably either been told a) there's nothing you can do about it, or b) they must be a threat to themselves or others.
I have been to many support groups where someone asked the expert or doctor about how to deal with their loved one's acting out behavior and the conversation goes something like this: "Well, umm… it's really hard. Are they threatening to commit suicide or to hurt someone else?"
Almost every time the answer is no.
So then the doctor usually says, "Well it's difficult," and then skips over the question quickly because they honestly have no idea.
This is true, but…
There are other ways.
How I Figured Out So Many Ways
First, I invented about seven ways myself. I had to come up with something to get my mom to stop her own acting out behavior.
Then I had an idea.
First, I would take the techniques that I knew worked. The ones I used and the ones I knew people used successfully.
I wrote them down and recorded them.
Then, I sent an email asking everyone on my list for any way they knew of to deal with their loved one's acting out behavior and manipulation.
I took all the emails, and I reviewed them carefully. Then I grouped them together looking for patterns.
If I saw something that worked 3 times by 3 different people I considered it proven. I then recorded it.
After weeks of doing this process, I had more than 25 strategies. I was really amazed.
The most amazing thing was that NOBODY else ever talked about these techniques.
Some of them you will find strange. Some you won't think could work but they do. Some you would think are too difficult but are not. After you review them, you'll find that it's very possible to deal with your loved one's acting out behavior and manipulation.
The good news is that I have personally taught people these techniques and now have seen that they work. I no longer have to rely just on knowing it only worked for 3 people on my mailing list.
You'll Never Find These Strategies Anywhere
The methods in How to Deal With Acting Out Behavior And Manipulation
In Your Loved One With Borderline Personality Disorder come from
real supporters just like you and me.
These come from people on the front line of the battle against borderline personality disorder.
Of all the people who submitted their methods of dealing with their loved one's acting out behavior and manipulation, I only selected methods that were used by at least three people successfully.
These are proven strategies. I know, because I have used them myself with my mom.
You're going to be amazed at how simple it will be to use these strategies.
In this guide, you'll learn the answer to one of the most difficult aspects of supporting someone who has borderline personality disorder, and that is: How to deal with their acting out behavior and manipulation, even when they are not suicidal, not causing harm to themselves or others, or not extremely violent.
You see, if your loved one is exhibiting any of those behaviors, you can have them hospitalized involuntarily. But most people with borderline personality disorder never meet those criteria, so you can't force them to see a doctor, psychiatrist, or go to the hospital to get the help they need.
To find out how to enable you to deal with your loved one's acting out behavior and manipulation, I used strategies that really work; I didn't just use my own experience. I also used the experiences of other people that I've interviewed, so you could benefit from their experiences as well.
I picked up dozens of useful tips and strategies (all of which work, by the way) … and you will, too.
Some of the things you'll learn in this guide are:
- How to know if your loved one has borderline personality disorder
- Is there a cure for borderline personality disorder?
- What to do if you are being abused by your loved one
- Your loved one may be in denial, and what to do about it
- What borderline personality disorder is
- How surprisingly common borderline personality disorder is
- Who borderline personality disorder affects the most
- Symptoms of borderline personality disorder
- Patterns associated with the disorder
- How your loved one's relationship with you can be "shallow"
- What impulsive behaviors are and how they can harm you
- How long your loved one's acting out behavior can last
- Why calling the police about a loved one's acting out behavior
could be deadly to them unless you do this
- What you need to know about suicide and borderline personality disorder
- The number #1 mistake people make when trying to deal with their
loved one's acting out behavior
- The worst thing to do when dealing with your loved one's acting out
behavior and manipulation
- The difference between "acting out" and "acting
in"
- How your loved one will blame you for their own behavior
- Whether your loved one is high functioning or low functioning and
how that affects how you deal with them
- 6 different types of defense mechanisms that your loved one will try
to use on you that you can avoid if you know them in advance
- The definition of manipulation
- How you can tell if you're being manipulated or not
- 13 specific steps you can take to deal with your loved one's acting
out behavior
- 10 steps to "getting off the rollercoaster"
- 9 amazing ways that you can deal with your loved one's anger
- 7 coping techniques you can use yourself to deal with your own feelings
and reactions to your loved one's acting out behavior
- A magical technique that will change the way you approach your
loved one's behavior
- How you can help your loved one
- …and much, much more!
You'll find so many strategies that work well that NOBODY ever talks about!
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Ok, Dave, So What Is This All Going To Cost Me?
First of all, I want you to change your mind about the word "cost," and think instead of "investment."
It's an investment that is going to SAVE you money. How much is your loved one costing you being unstable and not well? I know it's a TON. Why do I know? I have been there.
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Why am I doing this? Well I want to help people who are supporting people with borderline personality disorder. I really feel that "the system" has worked against them for so many years and I want to do something about it.
So far people love what I have put out. I am really excited about it and feel I am making a big impact.
Don't Decide Now
Don't decide now if these techniques and strategies will work. Simply
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Review it. Look it over. Look at the strategies. Then put them into action.
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Go ahead and place your order right away while the idea is fresh in your mind. Do it now before your loved one does more damage. Whether it's to themselves physically like suicide. Whether it's to someone else, like you. Whether it's any one of the terrible things that someone with borderline personality disorder is 100% capable of doing.
No matter what anyone else has told you… no matter how negative the "experts" have been… I'm telling you that you CAN learn how to deal with your loved one's acting out behavior and manipulation. You don't have to put up with it any more.
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Your Friend,
David Oliver
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