Before you get started on your journey to help your loved one with borderline personality disorder, I ask you point blank…

"Do You Know Why 9 out of 10 Supporters of Loved Ones with Borderline Personality Disorder Fail, and WHY THEY DON'T HAVE TO?"

WARNING!

Don't even think about trying to help a loved one with

borderline personality disorder without reading this information first.

Dear Friend,

If you have a loved one with borderline personality disorder, then this is going to be the most important letter that you have ever read.

Hi, my name is David Oliver.  In a few minutes I am about to tell you how I discovered why 9 out of 10 supporters of loved ones with borderline personality disorder fail, and WHY THEY DON'T HAVE TO!. Secrets that NOBODY else will tell you!

I learned them the hard way.  You won't have to.

But let's talk about supporters of loved ones with borderline personality disorder for a moment. 

Supporters of loved ones with borderline personality disorder have one thing in common: you’ll do anything to help your loved one conquer borderline personality disorder and become stable.

But supporters differ in one key way.

Some supporters – and these people are definitely in the minority (the 1 in 10) – become what I call “super supporters.” They’ve helped their loved one manage the episodes of acting out behaviors that come with borderline personality disorder. They can read their loved one like a book and know how to quickly nip these episodes in the bud. When an episode does occur, they’re able to help their loved one get back to “normal” quickly.

And most important of all … they’re able to separate themselves from the borderline personality disorder. They know when to step up and help their loved ones. When to make their loved ones help themselves. And they know how to take care of themselves first so they have the energy, patience and stamina to continue battling this disorder day after day.

If you, too, want to empower your loved one to take as much responsibility for themselves as reasonably possible … so you can still have a life of your own, then you MUST read this incredible letter!

Because I’m going to tell you about a new resource for supporters of loved ones with borderline personality disorder who want to maximize the support they give their loved ones … without enabling them.

…A new resource for borderline supporters who want to have a strong, healthy, loving relationship with their loved one.

As you’ll learn in the Borderline Supporter and Survivor Secrets to Success, Volume I,” one of the traits shared by super successful borderline supporters is that they constantly seek out information about how to become better supporters. They know that if they can learn even one new tip, trick or tactic from every resource they find, their investment will pay off. Even the smallest ideas can pay huge dividends when it comes to your loved one’s health and stability.

IS THIS WHAT YOU WANT ?

Then Keep Reading to Learn How You Can Be A Super Supporter Too, And How You Can Succeed Where Others Have Failed!

Why Achieving Stability Isn’t Enough

About two years ago, my mom had reached a plateau in her recovery from her disorder. The systems I had created for her were working, and she had been stable for a relatively long period of time. Now it was time to learn even more so that she could become even more high-functioning and take more responsibility for herself … so I could get back to my businesses and my own life.

I knew that the best way to learn what to do was NOT through trial and error. Nope, the fastest, easiest and most effective way to become a better supporter would be to find the best borderline supporters out there … and master their secrets for supporting loved ones (without enabling them).

I wanted to find:

  • Individuals who were supporting an adult with borderline personality disorder– and doing a really great job. I didn’t want to learn from people who have divorced or left their loved ones. I didn’t want to talk to people who have stayed in the relationship … but resent and constantly fight with their loved one.
     
    I wanted to find individuals who have stuck with their loved ones through the good times AND the hardest times … and who are still actively supporting their loved ones.
     
  • Individuals who had everything going against them … and didn’t have unlimited money to get help. Most of us don’t have unlimited resources. So I wanted to find people who were able to provide incredible support for their loved ones despite limited funds. In other words, I wanted to find people who didn't let a lack of money stop them from being the best supporter they could be.
     
  • Individuals who were willing to be interviewed … and be 100% honest. After interviewing literally hundreds of supporters over the past 5 years, I can tell you this: a shocking number of people embellish or flat out lie about their situations so they can look good. Of course, that wouldn’t work. I wanted to find people who would share the good AND the bad.
     
  • Individuals who were successful over a long period of time (at least one year). I didn’t want to interview people who had loved ones with lives that were out of control and who weren’t doing anything about it. I had to find supporters whose loved ones were doing well … and who had been stable for a significant period of time, primarily because of the help of their supporters.

I only had 3 ground rules when I started my search:

  1. The supporter could NOT be enabling their loved one.
     
    Enabling is when you basically handle all of a person's problems and they really don’t take responsibility for themselves. A good supporter, on the other hand, will help their loved one to manage as much of their disorder themselves as possible. A good supporter encourages their loved one to be as independent as they can be … while still supporting them when needed.
     
    Why was this so important? Because if you’re enabling someone, you’re not really helping them. More importantly, you’re hurting yourself. Borderline personality disorder is a high-stress, draining disorder. If you are taking responsibility for things that your loved one should – and can – do for themselves, you’ll wear yourself out. To be an effective supporter, you have to know how to draw and maintain boundaries with your loved one.
     
  2. The person couldn't have millions of dollars in the bank and buy their way out of their loved one's problems.
     
    I didn't want to interview supporters who were just hiring teams of doctors, therapists, lawyers, and other professionals to support their loved one. While this can be done, most borderline supporters are just regular folks like us who have limited financial resources. I wanted to find supporters who have found a way to deal with the financial difficulties associated with borderline personality disorder. I wanted to know their secrets so I could use them myself … and then share them with you.
     
  3. The person had to be supporting their loved one for at least 5 years.
     
    It's easy to support someone for a few months or a couple of years. Five years, however, shows you have really mastered it. It shows a real commitment, and I wanted to know how they did it and are still doing it, against the odds.

How I Developed the Ultimate System to Find Borderline Supporters

Here's How I Found the People Who Will Tell You How to Be a Super-Supporter:

  • A good ad to find successful borderline supporters
  • A good form for interview candidates to fill out
  • Preliminary questions to screen out people who might not be the best interview
  • A fair system for paying participants
  • A system of exacting the key tips, tricks, secrets, and strategies from the potential interviewees
  • A system of recording the interview for easy listening
  • A system of transcribing the interview for easy reading

I spent a whole lot of time to make all these mini-systems that went into the big system.

Wow! What a process!

But it was worth every bit of the time, money and detail, because I got what I needed to be able to help YOU!  Ultimately, I got interviews from all those supporters who were successfully helping their loved ones to manage their borderline personality disorder.

And that’s why I’m so glad you visited this webpage today.  YOU can now become the 1 in 10 supporter who WON'T FAIL in supporting your loved one with borderline personality disorder!

Announcing the Borderline Supporter and Survivor Secrets to Success, Volume I

After all this time, I FINALLY have put together the "Borderline Supporter and Survivor Secrets to Success, Volume I." This includes 10 interviews – both the audio recordings and the transcripts – with the 10 best borderline supporters I found during my almost two-year search process described above.

WARNING:  If you do not have good listening skills, this course is NOT for you.

The amount of information these “super supporters” shared is truly amazing!

Take a look for yourself:

  • The longest you should tolerate a disturbing pattern of behavior before getting concerned that your loved one is getting out of control

  • How to prove that your loved one is headed into an episode of acting out behavior without having to yell, cry, threaten or get upset (use this method and your loved one will tell you when a problem is coming up – not the other way around)

  • The normal reaction that supporters may have to their loved ones’ behavior … and why this response can actually prevent you from helping your loved one when they need it most  

  • The thing that all super-successful borderline supporters seem to have in common 

  • What your loved one will be tempted not to tell you when they start going into an episode … and what to do today to ensure you get the information you need to help them

  • Two criteria that your loved one needs to meet to be able to hold down a full-time job

  • The biggest breakdown to avoid ... because it dramatically increases the chances that your loved one will go out of control before you can help them

  • The expert resource most people don’t think about … and how having this person on your team can help you spot and avoid major problems before they occur

  • How to enable your loved one to control borderline personality disorder … not the other way around (this technique will change your life!)

  • How being successful in dealing with borderline personality disorder can work against you (this one will surprise you)

  • Want to protect your loved one if you have to call 911 in a crisis? This tip could save their life

  • The person you must trust above all else when you think something is wrong … even when many of the professionals reassure you that everything is fine 

  • The hope that nearly every supporter has when an episode is coming … and how it can impair your effectiveness as a supporter

  • The belief that many people with borderline personality disorder have about hospitals … and what both you and your loved one need to know to be comfortable with hospitalization

  • How to benefit from your loved one’s acting out behavior … so episodes actually become a way to help your loved one

  • The surprising way to reduce the stress of supporting someone with borderline personality disorder … and how this tool can help your loved one remain focused

  • The type of irrational thinking to address immediately if you want to substantially reduce the pressure that your spouse’s borderline personality disorder puts on your marriage

  • The surprising thing to bring someone with borderline personality disorder back into control without medical intervention 

  • The main thing you have to learn if you want to become an expert at supporting someone with borderline personality disorder

  • The “negative” behavior you probably need to adopt to get your loved one much-needed help 

  • Why you can’t depend on a therapist or doctor to teach you how to effectively cope with your loved one’s borderline personality disorder … and how to learn the things you must learn as quickly as possible

  • The 3 types of advice you’ll receive that you should ignore at all costs (following it will increase your stress and frustration – I guarantee it)

  • Why blindly following doctor’s orders can be a mistake … and what you should be doing as a supporter to ensure the best medical care for your loved one

  • The simple legal technique that will protect your home from the effects of your loved one’s impulsive spending sprees

  • Why getting treatment for your loved one is only half the battle … and what your family must be prepared to do if you want to help your loved one maximize their success in coping with borderline personality disorder

  • Why you might need to threaten your loved one’s doctor and therapist … and what to say to ensure your loved one gets the help they need

  • The common misconception that may place you in danger (this is probably the single most important – and hardest – thing to accept if you’re supporting someone with borderline personality disorder)

  • The only responsible thing you can do when your loved one complains about the effects of borderline medication (this helps them and shows that you’re listening to their complaint)

  • 3 signs that your loved one is getting poor medical treatment … and what to look for instead

Seem like a lot? It is … and we’re just getting started!

  • The single most important thing your loved one needs to do to regain control over borderline personality disorder … and the type of support they need to be successful

  • The most important rule to follow as a supporter

  • Ways to help ease your loved one’s bouts of paranoia … without resorting to more medication

  • The costliest mistake that you can make as a supporter … and how to be vigilant

     
  • The controversial thing you might want to do to become a more effective supporter … and help your loved one get better treatment

  • The most painful mistake your loved one will make during an episode … and how to not let it destroy you

  • The Quiet Investigation … and how it will help protect your loved one’s stability (and maybe even their life)

  • How humility can help you prevent and manage borderline episodes

  • The thing you must be crystal clear about when talking to your loved one – and what they must accept for you to be effective as a supporter

  • The real difference between “normal” people and people with borderline personality disorder … and how understanding this difference will simplify your life 

  • What recovering alcoholics know that will be critical to your ability to function as a supporter

  • The shift you should make in thinking about your loved one’s borderline personality disorder if you don’t want to become negative and cynical

  • How to organize your finances so you’re guaranteed to have the money you need to pay your bills … while also giving your loved one some freedom and independence

  • How to handle your loved one's rages (without raging yourself)

  • One of the most effective techniques your loved one can do to help prevent episodes

  • The shocking truth about how long it takes to become stable (most people don’t know this fact … and end up tossing in the towel too soon)

  • The toughest decision your loved one may have to make (the more “successful” they are, the harder this can be)

  • What pacifiers teach babies … and what adults need to relearn – especially if they have borderline personality disorder

  • The 2 most common situations supporters face when trying to spot a borderline episode in the making

  • How therapists may sabotage your efforts to help your loved one … and what to do 

  • The surprising thing that is the foundation for your loved one’s treatment plan – once you’ll see this, you’ll understand instantly why I constantly preach about protecting this area of your life

  • The type of delusions borderline personality disorder can cause … and how they differ from the delusions of other mental illnesses or even drugs

  • When you can’t let your loved one be completely independent … and how to tell when it’s OK to loosen your control over them

  • Why some medical professionals will try to blame you for your loved one’s borderline personality disorder

  • How to prioritize your life so that you don’t burn out and your loved one gets much-needed support … and how this order needs to change periodically

  • What you and the rest of your family must learn to do to effectively support your loved one with borderline personality disorder

  • The thing that can stop you from getting help when you need it … and how to stay alert for this potential block

  • The shocking statistic about alcoholism and mental illness … and what to do if your loved one is abusing drugs or alcohol

  • How your loved one may sabotage their stability … and what you can do to help prevent them from getting out of control again

  • The truth about how long it takes to find the perfect combination of medication for your loved one’s borderline personality disorder (warning: this is depressing … but the good news is that we cover tips for dramatically speeding up this process) 

  • How to identify the potential triggers and problems that your loved one deals with as a result of borderline personality disorder (the list is different for every person – this technique will help you identify the issues for your loved one)

  • Does your loved one yell and act out a lot? Try this 3-sentence formula to calm them down

  • The surprising reason that therapy is so effective at treating borderline personality disorder (if you don’t use it this way, I can practically guarantee that your loved one will have more episodes in the future)

  • The deal you can make with your loved one to dramatically reduce verbal abuse

  • Why doctors believe their word is law … and tactics to use to get them to listen to you

  • The common trap that supporters fall into when their loved ones go into acting out behavior … and how making this mistake can be dangerous for your mental health

But that’s not all …

  • How to get your loved one to go to a doctor’s appointment or therapy session when they don’t want to (hint: it’s not by making threats)

  • One way to help your loved one cope with borderline personality disorder that has nothing to do with medication or therapy

  • The rule that should guide your day-to-day life – if you aren’t using this, borderline personality disorder will be in control of your happiness and satisfaction  

  • The overlooked – but surprisingly accurate – predictor of how well your loved one will do at coping with borderline personality disorder

  • Why you must ignore one of the most basic rules of marriage if you want to protect your finances from your loved one’s borderline personality disorder

  • The 2 best things your loved one can do to help them emotionally cope with the effects of borderline personality disorder

  • Why you can’t trust everything you find on the Internet … and the 3 best web sites to use when researching borderline personality disorder

  • The magic words a therapist should tell your loved one to help you gain their trust

  • What your mechanic can teach your loved one about treating borderline personality disorder

  • How to help your loved one deal with their fear of abandonment

  • How to stack the deck in your favor when taking your loved one into a therapy or counseling session

  • How to create a positive, accepting environment for your loved one … and why they might resist your effort for a while

  • The rule of thumb to use in determining whether your loved one is “stable”

  • The most important thing you can do to help your loved one deal with borderline personality disorder (if you don’t do this, they’ll never be motivated to do the hard work)

  • The #1 rule to follow when preventing and dealing with acting out behavior

  • How to give yourself a reality check when you start to feel overwhelmed by your loved one’s borderline personality disorder

  • Why trying to keep life normal can actually sabotage your responsibilities as a supporter

  • How bad behavior can help you get better medical care for your loved one (the tips we cover are proven to work)

  • The powerful change you can make to help your loved one cope with borderline personality disorder … and why most people never think of this

  • The courtesy rule that will protect your relationships with your loved one … and nip problems in the bud

  • One of the top triggers for borderline episodes – it’s annoying for the average person … but downright dangerous for someone with borderline personality disorder

  • The indulgence you may have to cut back on if you want to stay on top of potential problems

  • The right way to react when your loved one starts screaming and yelling (this goes against your natural instinct … but it’s incredibly effective)

  • The lesson that every homeless person you meet can teach you about helping your loved one live with borderline personality disorder

  • One of the most frustrating things to understand when you’re first dealing with borderline personality disorder … and the truth you must accept to make your loved one’s diagnosis easier to accept

  • The surprising reason that a support group might be harmful to you as a supporter … and what to look for if you want to participate

  • The way in which your loved one will also be like a child … and how to help them grow up

  • How it can help you predict the causes of your loved one’s episodes of rage

  • What you as the supporter must do to ensure that your loved one’s episodes don’t destroy their finances, relationships and life

  • The one person your loved one needs most to be able to successfully cope with borderline personality disorder

  • The natural reaction most people have to mental illness … and how this actually makes your job harder

  • What you should let your loved one be in charge of … and what you need to control for their own good

  • The very common – and very dangerous – “tricks” people play with their doctors … and why you must ensure your loved one isn’t playing these games

  • When helping your loved one actually becomes harmful … and what you must do to avoid this situation

  • 2 critical rules you must follow to avoid giving your loved one a “death sentence” (any 12-year-old could tell you these … but most adults never stop to think about them)

  • How long a typical hospitalization lasts … and why you can’t trust the medications your loved one is given during an inpatient stay 100%

  • The simple reminder that can help you be grateful for your loved one’s borderline personality disorder

  • The surprising mistake that might make your pastor happy … but that could actually result in the worst episode your loved one has ever suffered 

  • Why devoting yourself to your loved one is dangerous for you … and harmful to them

  • The position you should adopt if your loved one is resisting treatment (this simple shift makes you a trusted confidante rather than a hated enemy)

  • The first 2 things you should do if you or your loved one suspect that an episode is in the making (wait too long to do these – or avoid them completely – and I can practically guarantee that your loved one will end up out of control)

  • How the most well-meaning professionals can turn out to be your worst enemies

  • Why supporters often are in worse shape than the loved ones they’re supporting … and the steps you need to take to protect yourself

  • 5 red flags that signal your loved one may be getting out of control

  • How to take steps to protect your loved one during an episode … and how to get their agreement when they aren’t thinking clearly  

  • The surprising way alcohol and drug use might be helping your loved one in the short-term

  • How to block your loved one’s access to your finances … without making them feel broke or picked on

  • Why your loved one will resist going to the hospital (even though it’s the safest place for them) – and what to do to get them there when they resist

  • What to do today if you even suspect that a loved one has borderline personality disorder

  • What many people don’t know about borderline personality disorder that may fool you into thinking your loved one is just depressed

  • The hands-down most important responsibility you have as a supporter … and why your loved one’s stability and life depend on it

  • 3 strategies you can use if your loved one suffers nasty side effects from borderline medication (be sure to ask your doctor about these first, though)

  • When it’s OK to step in and help your loved one with everyday tasks like paying the bills … and when such caretaking is harmful

  • The hardest thing you will have to do as a supporter … and why you absolutely must find the strength to cope

And that’s still not all. This program is literally PACKED with information!

  • The Rule of Holes … and how following it can help you prevent a borderline episode – or minimize its effects

  • How to use the Broken Record Technique to deal with your loved one’s irrationality during episodes of rage … and the only time it’s not safe to use it

  • How to tell when it’s time to let go of your loved one because you’ve done all you could

  • What to do if a medical professional tells you they can cure your loved one’s borderline personality disorder easily

  • What survivors of borderline personality disorder often do to make themselves feel better about having this devastating illness … and how their attempts to help themselves can cause a downward spiral of negative consequences

  • What watching someone else deal with borderline personality disorder can teach your loved one in dealing with their own illness

  • Why you need to disregard your loved one’s justifications for not taking medications … and what to do that will help treat their borderline personality disorder while also making them feel understood

  • The red flag that signals an episode is coming … and what you should do even if your loved one resists

  • What you should do several times a day to help preserve your sanity … and give your loved one’s therapist an accurate picture of how your loved one is doing

  • What you can’t rely on your loved one to provide … and who to turn to instead

     
  • The biggest mistake you and your loved one can make in dealing with borderline personality disorder

  • How to use a special technique to get your loved one’s behavior under control – not only does this technique practically eliminate conflict, it’ll make your loved one happy to go along with your suggestions

  • The thing that will be your biggest asset – and your biggest enemy

  • The difference between a mistake and a learning opportunity (understanding this will change your attitude toward borderline personality disorder and dramatically reduce your frustration and stress)

  • How to help your loved one face the natural consequences of how they act during episodes – without making them feel ashamed or embarrassed

  • 3 tricks for persuading your loved one to get help for their borderline personality disorder

  • How to deal with your loved one’s lies (hint: confronting your loved one is not the right way to handle the situation … unless you’re itching for a massive fight)

  • Why you can’t stop your education once you’ve helped your loved one achieve some level of stability

  • Why your loved one’s borderline personality disorder may actually be the biggest blessing of your life … and how to tell if that’s the case for you

  • What you’ll be tempted to do as your loved one gets better … and why it’s more critical to avoid this mistake the longer your loved one is stable

  • What to do if you think that your loved one’s medications aren’t working (this may make your loved one uncomfortable … but it’s absolutely essential to their stability)

  • How to maintain healthy boundaries – the rule of thumb that tells you when you’re being helpful … and when you are being co-dependent

  • The golden rule of borderline supporters … and how it will protect your sanity and lower your stress levels

  • What to do if you think your loved one is making a bad decision (hint: you have two choices … and which one is right for you depends on your loved one’s condition)

  • Should you take control or let your loved one make his or her own decisions and mistakes? You’ll be surprised – and maybe relieved – to read this

  • The most important pieces of information you must know as a supporter … and why they are so easy to forget

  • 3 things to do if your loved one is calling you names, degrading you, criticizing you, or humiliating you

  • The #1 skill you need to master to be able to easily understand and support your loved one … and what dogs can teach you about this skill

  • The 3 best ways to ensure you don’t start enabling your loved one – if you do that, your loved one’s borderline personality disorder will get worse … and your stress will increase exponentially

  • The special paperwork you need to have in place if you are not married to the person you are supporting

  • What DBT is … and the 4 primary areas of behavior that it can be used to control

  • The 2 supplements you might want to ask your loved one’s doctor about (although I don’t typically recommend alternative medicine for treating borderline personality disorder, the 2 are such a good idea that even you might want to take them)

  • The litmus test that tells you when to intervene in your loved one’s life … and when it’s better to back off

  • What to do when you want to give up and walk out on your loved one with borderline personality disorder

  • What you have to be prepared to do in an emergency – your loved one’s life may depend on it

  • The best way to diffuse your loved one’s irrational anger (this takes practice … but it pays off dramatically)

  • The advice your loved one might be tempted to avoid when getting out of control … and what you absolutely must do if they try resisting

  • The most vulnerable period your family will face during your loved one’s struggle with borderline personality disorder … and why many families fall victim to this devastating situation

  • How to recognize teaching moments … and how to maximize the opportunity they present to influence and support your loved one

  • What many supporters forget … and how forgetting this crucial fact can make it easier for your loved one to go into an episode

  • A method to handle your own emotions when you feel hurt and angry

  • How to get the information you need to monitor your loved one’s stability when your loved one doesn’t feel like giving you the answers

  • The subtle and sneaky ways your loved one may try to destroy the system you create to protect their finances (warning: some of these seem so logical that even you’ll agree – initially – that they’re good ideas)

  • The question you can ask when your loved one resists going to the therapist – this eliminates resistance in mere seconds!

  • What you will do in an attempt to help that will actually make your loved one get worse and worse – avoid this at all costs!

  • The thing that every person needs to survive … and why people with borderline personality disorder need it more than the average person

  • What most people don’t know when their loved ones cut back or stop taking medications – this simple fact explains why your loved one’s behavior shifts so suddenly and dramatically

  • The 6-word sales question that will show you how to best deal with your loved one’s complaints and anger about having borderline personality disorder

  • How to effectively record and communicate everything you’re observing to your loved one’s doctor or therapist … and the biggest mistake to avoid

  • How to change the way you think about borderline personality disorder … so you can tolerate the negative side of your loved one’s behavior without getting angry at them

  • The two basic choices you have when you need to pay off what your loved one spent during an episode of impulsivity… and the only choice that is safe for your loved one’s stability

  • How supporters can “catch” their loved one's borderline personality disorder … and what you must do to protect yourself (if you don’t do this, borderline personality disorder will destroy your life)

  • The easiest mistake to avoid … and why making this mistake guarantees that borderline personality disorder will destroy your life eventually

Learn It All Even Easier With Transcripts

When you’re listening to interviews, it’s really easy to miss information.

I’ve learned that there’s a scientific reason for this – when you hear something interesting, your brain has to stop and “chew” on it for a minute … and you tune out whatever you’re hearing for a few seconds.

That’s why I always listen to material 2 or 3 times. Each time I listen, I pick up new information I could swear I didn’t hear before!

Plus, some people like the ease of listening to CD's in their cars, while they're walking, etc.

To make it even easier to absorb all of the information contained in the "Borderline Supporter and Survivor Secrets to Success, Volume I," you’ll receive transcripts of each CD. That way, you can make notes while you listen or be able to go back later and have a handy reference guide with 210 pages of information to refer to.

As one supporter to another, I can tell you this – the “Borderline Supporter and Survivor Secrets to Success, Volume I” is something you must have to be the 1 in 10 supporter who WILL NOT FAIL!

How do I know? My own personal experience, that’s how!

If I had been able to access this type of information when I first started supporting my mom, I would have saved years of frustrating trial and error. And my job would have been a lot less stressful and aggravating.

If you’re tired of feeling like your life is controlled by borderline personality disorder

If you’re itching to figure out what will help your loved one become even more successful and high-functioning despite their borderline personality disorder …

If you want to do everything you can to help prevent episodes of acting out behavior and help your loved one get back on track faster after an episode …

The “Borderline Supporter and Survivor Secrets to Success, Volume I” belongs in your borderline arsenal!

“Okay, Dave . . .
So How Much Is This Program Going to Cost?”

First, I want you to change your mindset.

My dad used to think that information on borderline personality disorder “cost” money. Now, he doesn’t think that way … because he realizes that information is an investment. Trust me, this information is going to SAVE you money.

Taking years and years to figure out how to be a great borderline supporter is expensive. Just ask anyone who's been trying to figure it out for years. I bet they have spent more than $10,000. I am not kidding or exaggerating.

Simply add up all the lost work, the lack of health insurance, the visits to the wrong doctor, the money that’s been spent trying to find information on the disorder(or other disorders you thought your loved one had), the time you’ve lost from work because of your loved one’s emergencies, etc. It could easily come to $10,000 for several years.

For my family, it cost more. A LOT more. My dad easily spent more than $500,000. I personally have spent more than $250,000.

Second, let me ask you:  How much have you already spent on (useless) coaching courses, TV courses, inspirational courses, educational courses, and/or college courses? $1,500?  $1,000?  $500?  $250?  $200?  Well, this course is less than that!

WARNING:  If you do not have good listening skills, this course is NOT for you.

The information and proven strategies you’ll get with “Borderline Supporter and Survivor Secrets to Success, Volume I” will help you in so many ways. And with it, the hundreds (if not thousands) of dollars of "mistakes" you'll avoid, you'll save money.

There are two ways you can invest in “Supporter Secrets to Success, Audio Course.”

Get An IMMEDIATE Discount of $50.00 When You Get This Program BEFORE 10pm on September 15, 2014.

As you’ll learn in the “Borderline Supporter and Survivor Secrets to Success, Volume I,” one of the traits shared by successful borderline supporters is that they constantly seek out information about how to become better supporters. They know that if they can learn even one new tip, trick or tactic from every resource they find, their investment will pay off. Even the smallest ideas can pay huge dividends when it comes to your loved one’s health and stability.

So to encourage you to adopt this “success trait,” I’m going to give you an immediate discount of $50 when you invest in the “Borderline Supporter and Survivor Secrets to Success, Volume I” before the date above. Consider it your reward for committing to becoming an even better supporter.

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I'm so sure that you will love this guide, I'm willing to do something that everyone who works with me thinks is "crazy."

I'd like to send you a copy of Borderline Supporter and Survivor Secrets to Success, Volume I to review for FREE. That's right, NO MONEY.

Here's what I'm going to do for you:

I'm going to send you ONE copy of either course at MY RISK.

If you don't like it for any reason whatsoever, just send it back within 30 days, and you won't be charged (Don't worry, if the mail takes too long, and I get it back 31 or 35 days later and you've been charged, I'll give you a full refund). I am not trying to give you a hard time.

All I ask if she cover the shipping and handling for me to send the guide to you.

To pay you have three options

OPTION 1: The 3-Pay Installment Plan

I know what it’s like to have to operate within a budget. To make your investment in the “Borderline Supporter and Survivor Secrets to Success, Volume I” super-affordable, you can make 3 easy payments of just $54.99 a month. That’s far less than you’ll spend when you try to find successful borderline supporters yourself. Heck, it’s probably less than you pay for even ONE doctor visit or therapy appointment.

Best of all, you won’t pay a dime today. Your first payment will be due 30 days from now … which gives you a full month to review the entire program and decide if it’s right for you.

OPTION 2: The 2-Pay Installment Plan

Want to save even more? I’ll knock 5% off the total price when you make two payments of $78.73.

Best of all, you won’t pay a dime today. Your first payment will be due 30 days from now … which gives you a full month to review the entire program and decide if it’s right for you.

OPTION 3: The 1-Pay Plan

Want to save even more? I’ll knock 10% off the total price when you make one payment of $149.97. If you select the “one payment” option, your credit card will be billed in full at the end of your risk-free, 30-day trial.

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There’s no question about it: This information is absolutely, positively critical for you to have.

So I’m going to go out on a limb and offer something that someone might call “CRAZY” – like my accountant does!

Guarantee #1: 30-Day, Totally Risk-Free, 100% Satisfaction Guarantee

Go through the CDs and transcripts. If you are unhappy for any reason whatsoever – or even if you just change your mind about learning to be a better borderline supporter – send the entire course back … and you won’t owe me a penny.

(And don’t worry, if the mail is running slow and your course doesn’t get back here until day 32 or 35, and you’ve already been charged … I’ll still refund all of your money. This is really a totally risk-free trial.)

Guarantee #2: My Personal, 90-Day, Better-Than-Your-Money-Back Guarantee

If you decide to keep “Supporter Secrets to Success, Volume I,” your credit card will be charged in 30 days according to the payment schedule you select, and you’ll get an extra 90 days to continue reviewing the program on a totally risk-free basis.

And if you decide, on second thought, that this critical information somehow won’t help prevent a major episode with your loved one, send the transcripts back. I’ll refund every penny you paid . . . and I’ll even send you a $50 check for your trouble.

50 dollar bill

Plus, you can even keep all 10 CDs as my sincere thank you for giving the course a try.

That’s more than fair, don’t you agree?

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~ David Oliver, author of “Borderline Supporter and Survivor Secrets to Success, Volume I”

IMPORTANT NOTE

I have to admit, now that I see these guarantees in writing, I understand why my accountant is up in arms about this offer. To keep him from resigning, I had to agree to put four conditions on the better-than-your-money-back guarantee:

  1. You must be supporting an ADULT with borderline personality disorder. This information does not work with children.
     
  2. You must listen to ALL the CDs you get and read all the written material. If you can’t bother to go through the material, I cannot give you a double-your-money-back refund.
     
  3. Only one better-than-your-money-back refund is permitted per person or household. I’m going out on a limb here in offering this refund and am bearing a lot of risk on my shoulders – so please don’t take advantage of me. If you play fair, I’ll play fair.
     
  4. You must write me a detailed letter explaining why you didn’t find the material useful and give me permission to reprint it with your name on my website. This way, I can use your suggestions to make the product better … and to prove to people who wonder if these guarantees are real that, yes, they truly are.

Now even if you don’t meet these conditions – or even if you simply just change your mind on purchasing the product – I’ll still give you 100% of your money back, no questions asked (just not the better-than-your-money-back refund).

If you don’t meet the conditions spelled out above, just send the ENTIRE material (the CDs and the transcripts) back within the next 120 days (90 days after your first payment is made).

Why Am I Doing This?

I am bending over backward to make it risk-free for you to invest in “Borderline Supporter and Survivor Secrets to Success, Volume I” because I KNOW you need to hear this information if you are supporting someone with borderline personality disorder. I’ve been in your shoes – heck, I am IN your shoes today. I know how hard it can be to support someone with borderline personality disorder. Just like I know how desperately you want to get your hands on anything that will make your loved one’s life better.

I promise you … you will NOT find this information anywhere else. I wish I had known this material when we went through my mom’s most recent episode. I had to learn it the hard way. But I take comfort in knowing that you don’t have to.

If you don’t get this information, you are probably DOOMED. Borderline personality disorder will continue to run your life … until it drains every last bit of your motivation, patience and hope.

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I am not kidding around or just trying to get some money from you. You ABSOLUTELY, POSITIVELY need to get this information if you are supporting an adult with borderline personality disorder.

NOTE: If you are supporting a child with borderline personality disorder or if you have borderline personality disorder yourself, this material is NOT (and I repeat, NOT) for you. This information is only for people who are supporting ADULTS with borderline personality disorder.

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If you are a borderline supporter, it's critical to listen to other supporters that have lots to offer you. If you don’t, this disorder will suck the life right out of you. I’m convinced there is no faster road to burnout than being a borderline supporter without having access to the wisdom of other super-supporters who mastered the ability to outthink this disorder.

That’s why I’m willing to send you this program absolutely risk-free. Just tell me where to send it, and you can review the course for a full 30 days for free.

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Your Friend,

David Oliver

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