"How To Deal And Cope With Your Loved One's Borderline Personality Disorder"

Discover the secrets the Doctors, Books And Internet Sites will never tell you!

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Dear Friend,

If your loved one has been diagnoses with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), then this is going to be one of the most important letters you've ever read.

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is scary, isn't it? One moment your loved one can't stand to be away from you; they think you are the most wonderful person in the world!

A few hours later, they despise you and pummel you with hurtful words and possibly physical violence. Most of the time you feel as if you have to literally walk on eggshells around your loved one, because you never know how he or she is going to react or what they might do next.

I'm betting that the idea of abandoning your loved one has crossed your mind more than once. After all, it would be so much easier to just walk away forever - like a lot of people in your loved one's life already have - than to put up with these constant changes in mood, behavior, and attitude. At the time, however, you are afraid of what your loved one might do if you left. You're probably well aware of the self-destructive impulses that are a part of Borderline Personality Disorder.

The worst part is that you feel helpless. You want to help your loved one, but you don't know how. You've probably tried reading books on the subject - if you could even find any. You may also have visited other web sites to get information. My guess is that none of your attempts have been very successful . . . until now.

Because now you have finally found a place that is going to provide you with all of the answers and information you need to truly help your loved one.

How do I know? Because I've been where you are now. My mother has had bipolar disorder, a mood disorder similar in many ways to Borderline Personality Disorder, all of her life. I grew up witnessing her episodes but not understanding anything that was going on.

About 8 months ago, I was using every possible search engine just hoping to find a magical solution to my nightmare that was going to pop up on the computer screen.

I looked through website after website for answers. I wanted to find reasons, help, even someone to talk to. I didn't have any of that. I was just full of questions with no one I could turn to for answers.

I was confused and I felt like I was at the end of my rope. I'd endured all the torture, abuse, yelling, and screaming that I could take. Everyday seemed like one never ending bad dream.

My guess is that's how you're feeling right now, too.

The difference is that I found my answers - it took a lot of hard work, but we'll talk about that in a little bit. For the last 8 months, I've been supporting my mom, and I plan to keep supporting her for the rest of her life.

I've been able to help her because during those 8 months I went from knowing nothing about her disorder to becoming an expert who has been able to help her stay stable.

Because of everything that I've learned, I am able to help her with all of the following:

• Doctors
• Therapists
• Bills
• Debts
• Hospital issues/bills
• Planning for the future
• Making sure she is taking her medicine
• Making sure she goes to her doctor
• Health insurance issues
• Securing AND keeping a job

The best part is that caring for my mom is NOT overwhelming the way it used to be. That's because I have a simple system that I use to keep track of everything. I use checklists so I'll know what I need to do and so that everything will be organized.

Years Of Ignoring My Mother's Illness

During most of my life, my family didn't talk about my mother's illness. We didn't plan what to do if she went into another episode. We didn't talk to her doctor. We didn't educate ourselves about the illness. We simply pretended like it didn't exist.

In fact, no one in my house, not even me, even called the disorder by name during the last 28 years.

When my mom went into an episode, we just sat back and hoped that she'd either get over it on her own or that her doctor would make it all better.

It Started Last May

Last May, I started to notice that my mom was acting different. I could see changes in her, but I didn't say anything about it because we didn't talk about my mom's illness. Slowly, those changes became more obvious.

In November, my mom was really bad. She was yelling, screaming, and getting incredibly mad at everyone who came near her. After a little investigating, I found out that she was also missing days of work.

Even without talking about it, I knew that she was sick again. She was in a major "episode," and it was getting worse, not better.

The Mother Of All Episodes

My mother has had four major episodes. Those are the kind of episodes where she has to be hospitalized for more than 10 days. Based on my calculations, that was one major episode every 7 years or so.

This time wasn't like those episodes; it was much worse.

My mother had turned into a completely different person. She wouldn't eat or sleep. She only yelled, screamed, and said extremely hurtful things to my father and me. Since my brother doesn't like to deal with the problem, he never made himself available, if you know what I mean.

For about a month, my mom was on this rampage. She missed many days of work and finally stopped going altogether. Even then, she would call her job at least 6 to 8 times a day. She would also call family members and friends just to say mean things to them. I can't tell you how many people she alienated in just that short period of time.

The Lies Started

If that wasn't bad enough, my mom then started to make things up. She would tell people that I said this or that my dad had said that when in reality, we hadn't said anything of the sort. She'd tell me that other people had told her things which I found out was completely not true. It was so bad that we couldn't tell when she was telling the truth or telling a lie.

I Had To Walk On Eggshells

Every time I was near my mom, I'd panic because I didn't know how she would react or what she would do. Most of the time it seemed like I was fighting a losing battle because no matter what I did nothing got better. For example, if I said ANYTHING to her, even if I was just trying to have a pleasant conversation about the lawn, she screamed at me. Then I decided just not to say anything, but then she'd scream at me for not talking! I just couldn't win. It was an absolute nightmare. If you are dealing with someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder, you know what I am talking about.

I Got Fed Up

One day after she screamed at me for about an hour, I started to get really mad. I wasn't mad at her though. I was mad that I didn't know what was wrong with her. I was mad that it didn't seem like anything could help her. I was mad that no one in my family was doing anything except pretending the problem would fix itself. I was mad that I didn't have any information. It was so bad that my family didn't even know the correct name for what my mom had!

I Decided It Was Time For My Mother To Go The Hospital

After I'd gotten mad, I decided that she needed to go to the hospital. Of course, she refused. She screamed that she was fine. She told me that I needed to go to the hospital, not her. She insisted that all of her "supporters" said she would get better at home. She called me a "terrible son" and demanded that I "get out" of her life "forever."

And that was just the beginning. She continued to swear at me and to throw everything she could get her hands on at me. She repeatedly demanded that I leave the house and leave her alone because she never wanted to see me again.

For the next four weeks, my mom continued to stay in the house instead of going to the hospital. Initially, I thought about following my brother's lead and pretending that there was no problem. I could just close my eyes, cross my fingers, and hope that everything would work itself out.

But I couldn't do that. You see, my dad has quite a few health problems, including congestive heart failure, diabetes, high blood pressure, etc. I was worried that my mom's screaming would cause him to eventually have a heart attack.

To protect my dad's health, I spoke to my mom every morning so that she could scream and yell at me for at least an hour. EVERY DAY for 4 straight weeks she screamed at me every morning and again when I called her at night. For about two hours a day, I let her scream at me so I could divert at least some of her anger away from my dad.

The Doctor Didn't Have A Clue

After searching for awhile, I was able to find the name of my mom's doctor. We'd never talked to him or about him, so we'd also never learned his name or his number which was one of my family's big mistakes.

When I did talk to the doctor, he didn't have a clue. He didn't know that my mom was "that bad." He said that he was trying to regulate her medicine, and I asked, "How are you going to know when her medicine was right?"

Do you what he said? He said, "I'll ask her."

Can you imagine asking a mentally ill person to determine whether or not their medication is effective? He was a moron!

I asked him many other questions, too, but he didn't have any answers. He couldn't give me one single answer!

He made me so angry that I finally said, "Let's start over again and let me ask you some warm up questions like "What's your name?" and "What state do you live in?'"

Of course that made him mad, but it also made me realize that he was part of the problem, not part of the solution.

I Went To The Library

Since her doctor didn't know anything, I decided to visit a large library in my area to find some answers. When I went in, I felt nervous about asking the reference librarian for help finding information on my mom's disorder. I was convinced she was going to run from me or give me some weird look because I truly thought that people frowned on any discussion of mental illness.

Thankfully, I was wrong. Everyone in the library was very helpful. That wasn't the problem.

The problem was that there weren't very many books on the subject. There were zillions of books on weight loss, gardening, cooking, and living with other health problems but there were no books on how to cope with someone who had this disorder..

The books I did find spend most of the time talking about why people have it, but they never talked about the kinds of issues I was facing with my mom, such as how to get someone into treatment, how to get them out of debt, how to prevent them from losing their job, etc. Plus, most of the books about the disorder were too technical to be easily understood or were written by bipolar people for bipolar people. Neither type of book was helpful to me, so there was a huge gap in the knowledge base.

That's why I started finding other sources of information. I read articles, college textbooks, and similar materials. Plus, I started finding support groups.

After about 20 days of MASSIVE research, I finally could say that I had a handle on the situation and could identify most of the mistakes my family had made during the last 30 years.

However, I didn't stop there. Over the next few months, I started interviewing doctors, therapists, hospital workers, social workers, and bipolar individuals. I attended support groups and started compiling information, making notes, and creating checklists. As I was doing all of this, my main goal was to NEVER repeat what was happening to my mom.

Throughout my research, I kept running across discussions of Borderline Personality Disorder and meeting people who had or were knowledgeable about it as well. With a little extra digging, I learned that bipolar disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder are two very similar mental illnesses. They both are considered mood-disorders, are often experienced in tandem with other problems - such as drug or alcohol addiction, and cause our loved ones to engage in self-destructive behavior.

I also discovered that the coping strategies which worked for me and my mom (who has bipolar disorder) would also work for individuals, like yourself, trying to support a loved one who has Borderline Personality Disorder.

So from that point on, I was actually doing research on both disorders with the hopes of helping my mom and other people who are going through the same nightmare I had been living for so long.

Some of the best information came from people that has Bipolar Disorder AND Borderline Personality Disorder. I met MANY people who have both and they shared a number of different tips, tricks and things I didn't find anywhere else. It was kind of amazing.

The good news is that my efforts paid off . . .

I Finally Used A Technique To Get My Mom Into The Hospital

After all that work, I was finally able to get my mom admitted voluntarily to the hospital. One morning I woke up, and I was so desperate for her to get help that I brainstormed this incredible technique . . . and it worked. She was in the hospital getting the help that she needed.

I Decided To Learn Everything There Was To Know

After that, I took off 6 months from work in order to drive all over my state on a quest to learn everything that I could about bipolar disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder. I attended support groups and interviewed people. I spent and lost an incredible amount of money because I had to pay most of these people to talk to me and because I wasn't able to attend to my own business.

That doesn't matter though, because it was worth it. Here's how my research has helped my mom:

It's Almost A Miracle

The difference this information has made in my life and in my family's life has been amazing. Helping my mom is sooooooo much easier these days. I only wish I had found all of this out years ago.

How My Pain Will Be Your Gain

Even after those six months were over, I kept going to support groups and talking to people who had bipolar disorder, as well as many who had Borderline Personality Disorder. When they heard that I had done all of this research and that I was helping my mom, they started asking for my help, too. So I did. Some of them even suggested that I write a book because they knew, like I did, that there simply wasn't enough good information out there.

One of my friends finally said, "Dave, don't you think it's your duty to share what you know with other people so they don't have to suffer like you have?"

That made me think. The truth is I would have done ANYTHING to get all of the information I now had when I was first dealing with my mom's episode. If I could have had everything in some type of course or book or audio tape, then things would have been so much easier for me, my dad, even my mom.

So I put together a course aimed to help the supporters of loved ones who have Bipolar Disorder. Since I'd already lost a lot of time and money on the research, I decided just to try that subject first, just to test the water and to see if there were people who wanted this information. The course's success has been phenomenal, and I receive so many positive testimonials about the course every day that I had to hire someone just to READ them.

That's why I decided to put together another course: a course that will teach you all of the tips, tricks, and secrets that I know so that you can use them to support someone in your life who has Borderline Personality Disorder.

Once I got started, I realized that the same information may not be right for everyone so I ended up creating TWO versions of The Borderline Personality's Supporter's Course. Let's talk about each of these versions and how they can help you.

Basic Borderline Personality Disorder Supporter's Course

First, let's look at the basic course. The basic course comes with a number of items that will help you to better help your loved one and yourself when dealing with bipolar disorder. However, the core of the basic course is The Borderline Personality Disorder Supporter's Manual.

In The Borderline Personality Disorder Supporter's Manual you'll discover:

• What Borderline Personality Disorder really is
   
• What signs and symptoms you need to watch for in your loved one
   
• No-Fail strategies for avoiding conflict
   
• How it is possible to support someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder AND still think he or she is a jerk sometimes - trust me, it's ok to not like your loved one sometimes but you can't let it interfere with your support of them
   
• A little mistake that can cost you a fortune if you HAVE health insurance
   
• The shocking truth about how many people have Borderline Personality Disorder - you'll be amazed!
   
• The one worst doctor your loved one can see, if your loved one is seeing this type of doctor, he/she is doomed and so are you
   
• New ways to motivate your loved one to do what's in their best interest
   
• The Five deadly mistakes you can make when dealing with your loved one
   
• The four reasons why going to a therapist could be dangerous to your loved one (unless you know these 3 simple things)
   
• The four steps to absolute peace in your house when you are dealing with your loved one
   
• The one most important piece of health insurance advice you'll ever get
   
• How to be a good spouse to a person with Borderline Personality Disorder
   
• The secret to being a good friend to a person with Borderline Personality Disorder
   
• The ugly truth about medicine and Borderline Personality Disorder
   
• What most doctors treating BPD don't want you to know
   
• What you can learn about dealing with and supporting a person with BPD from a former prisoner of war in Vietnam
   
• The (absolutely) last word on whether or not BPD runs in the family and what to do about it
   
• Why and when you should go visit the police ASAP and talk to them
   
• The five deadly mistakes you can make when dealing with someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder
   
• What the rule of 5 is, and how to use it to make sure your loved one gets the absolute best care from any hospital, doctor or therapist. This is simple yet amazing.
   
• What the HIPA Laws are and how to get around them if you need to (use this as a last result)
   
• How to get a loved one committed. Sometimes you have to for their own good and yours.
   
• Will other people in your family get it? Learn the shocking truth about what you can do about it (it's not what most people think)
   
• The signs to watch for and when it's time to take your loved one to the hospital
   
• How to get your loved one into treatment if he/she doesn't want to go
   
• The Stockdale Paradox and how to use it to help you, yourself, your family, your friends and most importantly your loved one
   
• What you should absolutely positively know if your spouse has BPD. WARNING. Not knowing this information can be deadly to YOUR health.
   
• The top 10 mistakes that people make supporting someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder
   
• What the "Black and White" syndrome is and how you can deal with it
   
• How you can help your loved one regain friendships and repair damaged relationships
   
• The reasons it's critical for you to be available to "rescue" your loved one frequently - it's one of the secrets of Borderline Personality Disorder no one really warns you about
   
• An amazing technique to get your loved one to sign documents if you need them to
   
• Four things you have to do for your loved one if they have a job
   
• A little mistake that could ruin YOUR health almost instantly and what you can do about it
   
• How to identify signs of self-mutilating behavior so you can catch it before it gets out of hand or leads to something even more destructive
   
• The secrets to finding the best therapist and/or psychiatrist who are experienced in dealing with Borderline Personality Disorder
   
• Ways to prevent your loved one from being overwhelmed by feelings of guilt for their actions and behaviors - guilt can build up and lead to serious, dangerous problems for your loved one if you don't prevent it
   
• How to teach your loved one the important coping strategies he or she needs, especially when it comes to finances
   
• How to encourage other loved ones to jump onboard and work with you to provide support for your loved one who has Borderline Personality Disorder
   
• What three therapies are often used to treat Borderline Personality Disorder - you'll learn what to expect from each, plus how they work to help your loved one
   
• The definitive answer to the question: Do alternative therapies work for Borderline Personality Disorder? You may be surprised by the answer!
   
• Important steps for constructive interaction and communication between you and your loved one - there is probably no other thing that is so critical to your loved one's stability and your ability to support him or her for the long-term
   
• The warning signs of suicide - you MUST know these signs because they can save your loved one's life!!!!

and MUCH, much more.

Worksheets
You're going to get plenty of worksheets designed to help you stay on track and stable with your illness. These are the same things I gave my mom.

Checklists
I am a huge believer in checklists so you are going to get many. Like the worksheets, these are great to help you stay on track with what you have to be doing.

Deluxe Borderline Personality Disorder Supporter Course

If the basic course doesn't provide all of the information you need, then you may be interested in the Deluxe Borderline Personality Disorder Supporter's Course. In the Deluxe version, you receive everything that is included in the basic course, including The Borderline Personality Disorder Supporter's Manual, plus the items listed below:

The Top 10 Mistakes People Who Support People With Borderline Personality Disorder Make (Audio Module)
Here's just a FEW of the many ideas you will learn in this module:

• The worst thing to do with Borderline Personality Disorder
• Why most people never get a handle on the disorder
• The shocking thing that so many people who have BPD do that nobody ever talks about
• A little mistake that can make a person with BPD have a much more difficult time getting well
• How to go from everything being calm to having your loved one have a complete breakdown

and much more!

Borderline Personality Disorder & Money (Audio Module)
In this audio module, you'll find out all of the important information listed below and much, much more:

• How to save money if you are dealing with BPD
• Tips, tricks and secrets to money management
• How I lost over $180,000 WITHOUT even knowing it (imagine that)
• Things you have to watch out for so you don't have your finances destroyed
• How people who are financially secure get their finances destroyed by
• Borderline Personality Disorder (and it's not from hospital or doctor bills)
• How to setup special systems to help you make and save money with BPD

and a whole lot more you will NEVER find in any other source

Borderline Personality Disorder Supporter's Success Story (Audio Module)
On this audio module, I interview a woman who has learned through trial and error some of the most effective methods for supporting a loved one who has Borderline Personality Disorder.

You see, her brother has the disorder. Things got really bad for him. He suffered from episodes of wild anger, catatonic depression, even a sudden suicide attempt. Now, with her help, he has gone back to school and is graduating with a degree in.

In this amazing interview, she'll tell you what worked for them and what can work for you and your loved one, including the following:

• Art therapy and how it worked
   
• The truth about family therapy
   
• How to deal with someone with wild mood swings and the potential to commit suicide
   
• How to use art therapy to support a loved one with Borderline Personality Disorder
   
• The causes of her brother's 2 major episodes
   
• The two kinds of support you can offer your loved one
   
• How to support someone that lives hours a way from you. There's a right way and a wrong way.
   
• What you need to know about Borderline Personality Disorder and the holidays
   
• How to be a mediator
   
• How to deal with the manipulation of you and other family members
   
• What to do when the person that you are supporting starts to blame YOU for their problems
   
• What you can do when one or more family members don't speak to the family member who has Borderline Personality Disorder
   
• What you can do when one or more family members don't believe Borderline Personality Disorder is real
   
• WARNING! What you need to know about your own child in the family
   
• How to handle someone when they get really angry
   
• What you need to know when someone goes into an episode
   
• How to deal with extreme anger with a person that has BPD
   
• How to deal with a loved one who has BPD that always tries to make YOU feel guilty about their illness.
   
• How people with BPD can get YOU into fights with other family members
   
• How to talk and communicate with someone who has BPD. This part is really important. Wait until you hear what you should never say. You're going to be shocked!!

Mental Health Success Story
This interview is truly an inspirational story. On this tape, you'll hear from an individual who has a DEVASTATING mental illness. One far WORSE than Borderline Personality Disorder. I have included this in the course, because you are going to be thinking for sure after listening to this "Wow, if he can manage that, I can surely manage Borderline Personality Disorder." After listening to this tape, you'll have so much faith and hope for yourself that you won't let anything stop you from achieving your goals, especially not BPD. Here are some other key things you'll learn from this interview:

• How to handle mental illness
• How to set goals and achieve them
• The key things that helped this individual get off the couch after 5 years
• How he was able to marry and have children
• How he handles the ups and downs of mental illness
• The tips, tricks and secrets you can learn from him about bipolar disorder
• How to cope and deal with really bad times

...and so much more!

Borderline Personality Disorder Success Story
In this interview, you'll hear what it takes to successfully manage Borderline Personality Disorder. It will help you have a benchmark for what your loved one should be doing.

I interview a woman who has Borderline Personality Disorder and has had many challenges in life. Her life seemed to be going along smoothly until she was diagnosed with the disorder, then she ended up almost losing EVERYTHING!

Then she used an amazing strategy to completely turn her life back around. It's an incredible story! Here's some of what you'll learn during this interview:

• How to handle Borderline Personality Disorder
• The secrets of handling Borderline Personality Disorder when you have a serious and possibly stressful job
• How to create a support system
• The secret of this person's success and how to use this information for your situation
• Why this particular individual believes she has the "Mercedes Benz" of mental illnesses
• The shocking truth about doctors and hospitals . . . why this woman almost died until she had this done
• Why you don't have to be limited by this disorder
• How you can achieve GREAT things even when you have Borderline Personality Disorder, and she should know because she achieved more success than 10 people without Borderline Personality Disorder would have
• How to handle the little problems of your loved one's illness - the ones nobody usually talks about

…and so much more.

Believe me, this interview will not only give you hope for the future, it will also provide you with concrete information on how to make things better for you and your family despite the disorder.

Why Should You Respond Now?

If you respond IMMEDIATELY to this offer, you'll also get up to 11 FREE Gifts which are described below:

FREE Gift #1: A 1 Year FREE Subscription to "Borderline Personality Disorder Supporter's Breaking News" e-Letter.
Even though I already know a lot about Borderline Personality Disorder and about supporting, I continue to learn new tips, tricks, and techniques all the time. With "Borderline Personality Disorder Breaking News," you'll learn just as fast as I do. When I find out something new, I will email it out to you immediately.

The reality is that it takes a long time to get new information normally. For example, a brand new book would be full of information that is already two to three years old simply because it takes so long for the book to be published.

You shouldn't have to use old information to combat your loved one's Borderline Personality Disorder. With "Borderline Personality Disorder Breaking News," you'll have the latest information as soon as it's available. You won't have to wait around anymore.

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You may already be familiar with my Borderline Personality Disorder Supporter's Mini Course which is full of excellent tips, tricks, and secrets about managing and conquering Borderline Personality Disorder. Normally this Mini Course is sent out over a three month time period through email but now you can have the whole thing right away completely FREE.

FREE Gift #3: Mental Health Life Savers Resources Directory
One of the most frustrating, time-consuming, and costly challenges you're going to face while caring for your loved one is finding the right resources, including support groups, organizations, doctors, therapists, etc. As you might imagine, I've built up quite an arsenal of information about these resources while I've been working on my own research.

In this guide, I include a complete listing of all those resources that I have found most valuable or that have been highly recommended to me by people I trust. Once you get this directory, I urge you to read through it once with a yellow highlighter in hand so you can mark all of the resources that may be most important to you and your family. That way you'll have easy access to them throughout the year. This will save you a ton of time and money and will ensure that you can get the help your loved one needs.

Let me give you a taste of what types of resources you'll find in this guide:

• How to get FREE or low cost medicine
• How to get FREE help to get a job
• People, places, and organizations that are in YOUR area that will help you cope and deal with Borderline Personality Disorder
• Organizations that will help you deal specifically with children
• The one man who has a 95% winning rate in helping people get disability and offers a FREE consultation if you tell him I sent you.
• Highly trained people that will come to your house, for FREE, and watch someone with Borderline Personality Disorder while you take a break all day.

Plus, much more!

There are 32 pages of resources listed in this guide. There's just so much information packed into this guide that you won't believe it and most of it isn't available at all on the Internet so even if you've done your own search for resources I can guarantee you'll find something useful here.

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Studies and my own independent research illustrate that most people who have Borderline Personality Disorder run into problems with their bills and with debt. That's why I put together this report that will show you how I helped my mother get on the track to getting out of debt. During this last episode, she had a stack of bills in her bedroom that was three feet across and 4 inches high. I couldn't believe it! Going through all of those bills was a massive undertaking. Helping her has given me the knowledge that can help anyone, even people without Borderline Personality Disorder, get out of debt without having to file bankruptcy. So you can use this information first to help your loved one, then you can use it to help yourself or your other family members who may also need it.

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Remember when I said that my mom's old doctor didn't have answers to the questions I asked about bipolar disorder? Well, after that, we had to get a new doctor. The bad part was there weren't any that we knew of. Even the hospital treating her had to struggle to give us a good referral. My dad even worriedly said to me, "There just aren't any good doctors in our area covered by our insurance."

Well, I wasn't about to give up, so I invented an entirely new way to get high quality doctors and therapists to contact YOU. It's really an incredible system, and it worked for my family. My mom has a great doctor now who helped turn around her condition faster than we could have ever hoped for.

If your loved one needs a good doctor or therapist, then you MUST read this report!

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So many people don't realize that there is help available for people with Borderline Personality Disorder if they know where to look. This report will show you the tips, tricks, and secrets to getting FREE help from the government so that you can help your loved one to get their bipolar disorder under control. You will be amazed at this unbelievable legal and ethical loophole in "the system."

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The first thing I thought when I found this information was "I really wish we knew this 20 years ago." There are some great jobs that are perfect for people with mood disorders, like bipolar and Borderline Personality Disorder, but they simply aren't "advertised well." Once you know about them, you can help your loved one find one that's right for their needs and skills so they'll be able to ensure their financial stability which means your family will have one less thing to worry about because of the Borderline Personality Disorder.

FREE Gift #8: [For Deluxe Package Only] - Special Report: "The Best and Worst Credit Cards For Those With Borderline Personality Disorder."
Not all credit cards are created equal; my family found this out the hard way. When your family is dealing with Borderline Personality Disorder, you want to be particularly careful about which credit cards you have available. There are some good ones, but there are also some really bad ones. This report can help you prevent credit problems before they start or can keep them from getting worse.

FREE Gift #9: [For Deluxe Package Only] - One Question Certificate.
The truth is that no book, manual, or course has ever been able to answer every possible question. For that reason, I offer this question certificate which you can use by faxing, emailing, or mailing me your question. Once I receive it, I'll be able to get right back to you with an answer. Make sure to include your telephone number because in many cases it's easier to discuss the answers over the phone.

I know from experience that it's great to talk to someone who is knowledgeable about mood disorders, especially someone who has been where you are now, so I'm willing to help you. The only stipulation is that I am NOT a doctor so you CANNOT ask me any medical or legal questions.

FREE Gift #10: [For Deluxe Package Only] - Access To Important Documents.
I want to make sure that you have access to as many useful tools as possible while you're struggling to support your loved one. That's why I've set up a special web site where you can download customizable documents that will assist you in helping your loved one. Below is a partial list of the documents you'll find on the site:

• Forms to help you manage your loved one's care when they are in an episode
• Documents to help protect their finances and yours
• Materials to ensure that doctors and therapists are giving your loved one the best care possible

Plus, many more tools that you'll find extremely valuable.

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You may be wondering why you'd need to know anything about bipolar disorder since your loved one has Borderline Personality Disorder, but the truth is that many people who are diagnosed with BPD also have bipolar disorder. The combination of the two disorders can be extremely difficult to treat and to deal with, especially if you are only knowledgeable about one or the other.

To help you determine whether your loved one may be suffering from both disorders or to help you learn more about the other side of their illness if they've already been diagnosed with both, I'm sending you my famous Bipolar Disorder Explanation guide. It will tell you everything you need to know about bipolar disorder.

Here's A Recap Of What You'll Get In
The Borderline Personality Disorder Supporters Course By Midnight

. . . But you do NOT need to invest $256 OR even $751

Okay, So What Does The Borderline Personality Disorder Supporter's Course Cost?

You are probably wondering right now how much this course costs, and I'm going to tell you. However, I want to talk about a couple of things first.

I don't want you to think of The Borderline Personality Disorder Supporter's Course as just a purchase. It's more than that; it's an investment. You see, when you buy this course, you are investing in your loved one and in your entire family.

The sad truth is that supporting someone with Borderline Personality Disorder isn't easy, but if you don't have the right information and if you don't know what needs to be done, then your task is nearly impossible.

Even if you would decide to do your own research like I did, you'd have to be able to devote six months of your life to finding those answers. Could you afford to do that financially or emotionally? The answer is probably no.

And that's why this course is so important!

With the information you'll find in this course, you'll be able to help your loved one turn his or her life around. You can show them how to repair damaged relationships, rebuild their credit, and work on their employment status. You can even prevent these types of problems from ever happening to your loved one in the first place!

You can ask anyone who has had Borderline Personality Disorder or who has been supporting someone with the disorder for years, and they'll tell you that they would pay any amount of money to turn back the clock and to make the types of changes I suggest in this course. They know that this information would have made theirs and their loved ones' lives easier and more productive.

All I'm asking is for you to think about that and to view this not as a purchase but as an investment in some of the most important things in your life: your well-being, your loved one's stability, and your family's future happiness.

How Much Is This Investment?

With that said, I'm going to answer that question you've been pondering: How much does this investment cost? The basic Borderline Personality Disorder Supporter's Course is only $79.95, and the deluxe version is just $99.95.

No matter which course you pick, however, you are going to actually SAVE money in the long run. How? Because you won't waste money on bad doctors and therapists. Because your loved one won't deplete their finances or run up huge credit card debts during manic spending sprees. Because you'll find out how to save money on prescriptions and other medical expenses. And those are just a few examples of how this one-time investment is going to SAVE you money.

Is This A Little Or A Lot?

I know that $99.95 may sound like a lot of money right now, but the truth is that this investment won't alter your life that much. Did you realize the amount actually breaks down to just $0.42 per day for one year? Not to mention all of the stuff that you already spend $99.95 on, such as magazine subscriptions, restaurant meals, etc., which isn't doing anything to help make your job or your loved one's life any easier or better.

When you really think about it, $99.95 is a small price to pay to turn your loved one's life around and to set them on the right path for a happier, more stable life.

What's The Catch?

The best part is that there is no catch! I'm not trying to make a fortune selling this course. All I want to do is help other people who are in the same situation I was in a few months ago. I don't want you to have to be yelled at daily for weeks or to spend six months of your life searching for answers. The truth is that I would be willing to give this course away, but I need the extra money to help my mom pay for her medical bills and to help her climb out of debt.

But I don't want you to have any doubts about this course when you order, so I'm offering a 120-Day Money Back Guarantee.

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GUARANTEE #1: IRON Clad NO Questions Asked 120-Day Money Back Guarantee

I know this is the best guarantee you have ever seen! If you do ask for a refund, I'll issue one promptly and courteously with NO questions asked. But that's not the best part! My guarantee is actually better-than-risk-free because not only do you get a 100% refund (less shipping and handling), you also get to keep all of the FREE gifts even if you return the course. You'll have nothing to lose, but a lot to gain, so you're guaranteed to come out ahead.

GUARANTEE #2: 5 Months $417.00 Challenge

If, at the end of 5 months, you haven't SAVED at least $417.00 with my course, all you need to do is ask me for a refund and you've got it, every penny, after 5 months. This course is designed to teach you about Borderline Personality Disorder, save you time and SAVE you money. I am so confident about this, I have built it into my guarantee.

I doubt you can find anybody else offering any kind of information on Borderline Personality Disorder who is willing to provide a guarantee even half as strong as mine.

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Are You Familiar With The Cost Of Waiting?

Why You Must Respond NOW

You may not have realized this but Borderline Personality Disorder is one of the most devastating disorders on the planet. It can and often does destroy everyone and everything in its path. Plus, it's one of the most EXPENSIVE illnesses you'll ever be faced with. People have gone from living lush and lavish lifestyles to being practically penniless because of this disorder. Not to mention, the loss of jobs, relationships, and peace of mind that Borderline Personality Disorder also causes.

The bad news is that the longer you wait to intervene, the worse the problems are going to get.

Look at my family. We waited YEARS before we did anything for my mom. We just thought that each episode would be the last or we'd say to ourselves "it can't get any worse." But guess what . . . mood disorders don't go away and your loved one won't get better on their own. The problems and the episodes just keep getting worse and worse.

This time my mom completely fell apart and took the rest of her family along on the trip. And, unfortunately, the SAME thing can happen to you and your loved one if you don't do something now.

Let Me Ask You Some Tough Questions?

Are you ready to get serious about Borderline Personality Disorder? You have to be serious if you are going to make a difference in your loved one's life. Not taking Borderline Personality Disorder seriously is the best way to guarantee things are going to go from bad to terrible.

Are you concerned that it can take over your life? Without a system and a solid plan in place, Borderline Personality Disorder will take over not only your loved one's life but yours as well. Without intervention, Borderline Personality Disorder will literally destroy everything in its path.

Do you know what to do if things get worse? I know I didn't. Remember that I went for months trying to stick it out while hoping everything would work itself out. Of course, it didn't! By the time I wised up, I was living in an absolute nightmare. I lost a TON of money. Things looked so bleak for me that I honestly wasn't sure I'd survive myself. I don't want you and your family to have to go through what I went through.

You WON'T Find This Information Anywhere

The information in both versions of this course cannot be found in any other book, course, manual, etc. You won't find it at the library. Your family doctor won't be able to give it to you. How do I know? Because I tried to find it myself. It's not there!
Believe me, you don't want to make the mistake of trying to figure out everything on your own. You'll end up losing a ton of money and time just like I did, so learn from my mistakes. Don't repeat them.

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Don't Decide Now

Wait! I'm not asking you to decide at this moment whether this course is the best thing that's ever happened to your family. All I'm asking is that you get my course risk-free, then read through it and think about the information for a few days. If you don't like it, you're fully protected with my incredible iron clad 120-Day Money Back Guarantee.

But I don't think that will happen because I guarantee that after you read this course you're going to know EXACTLY what to do for your loved one and you're going to be able to beat this mental illness for the sake of your loved one and the rest of your family.

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The Choice Is Yours

If you still haven't decided what to do, then let me narrow down your options for you. The reality is that you're faced with three choices. The one you pick is going to affect your loved one and the rest of your family forever.

Choice #1: You don't do anything. You can keep pretending that you have a handle on your loved one's Borderline Personality Disorder or that everything will work itself out. You can just turn a blind eye to the horrible possibilities of bankruptcy, lost friends, homelessness, bad doctors, and poverty that could await your loved one in the future.

Choice #2: You can decide to search for this information on your own. You can do the research, spend a ton of money, and devote years to trial and error testing before possibly finding a way to conquer your loved one's Borderline Personality Disorder. Keep in mind that the strategies I used with my mom took one year of massive day and night research and thousands of dollars to develop.

Choice #3: You can invest in my course and immediately discover how to start effectively helping your loved one to reclaim his or her life. You'll be able to take a "shortcut" passed all of the time, energy, effort, money, and heartbreak so your loved one and the rest of your family can be happy again without the threat of another episode looming above them.

So which choice are you going to make?

Right now, you have the power to ensure that your loved one's life doesn't become a disaster because of Borderline Personality Disorder. When I think about my mom's last episode, I realize that if I hadn't done something, then she was at risk of completely falling apart. I don't even like to think of what might have happened to her, to my dad, to our whole family.

Even now, it's going to take a few years for me to repair all of the damage that has been done because of the mistakes my family made when dealing with my mom's mood disorder.

There are many, many things that we did that I know we will NEVER do again. There are many things that I was able to teach my mom so that she can take an active role in protecting herself and the rest of her family. The sad thing is that most individuals who have Bipolar Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, or other types of mood disorders and their families are never able to reach this point because they don't have the necessary information.

This is your chance to get that information and to save your loved one and the rest of your family from the ravages of Borderline Personality Disorder. Just click here to get my comprehensive course.

Forget about getting a simple book written by someone who doesn't know what you're feeling. My mom, our family, and I learned the hard way. Now you have the opportunity to learn from years worth of our mistakes and hundreds of hours of my research in the comfort of your own home. I urge you to take action today and click here to order this risk-free course today.

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Wishing you all the best,

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